How to Lose Your Mother: A Daughter's Memoir
Jong-Fast...examines this 'annus horribilis' with exacting detail, unflinching honesty and raw emotion, managing to leaven the pain with self-deprecating humor and a mighty reservoir of love. Her prose is direct, simple and filled with bits of wisdom, asides to the reader, all of which creates an experience of intimacy with an adored friend ... A midlife coming-of-age story in the extreme. Jong-Fast has put to words the tumult of the worst year of her life, captured and harnessed the experience so that the rest of us can know that we are not alone. She’s Job with a sense of humor.
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Jong-Fast has written a memoir that feels like an effort to transcend her mother’s narrative with her own, while still remaining deeply bound to the family form ... Jong-Fast is cognizant of both her nepo-baby privilege and the thorny ethics of writing a memoir about an ailing parent. Yet she remains unsparing in her analysis, and grief and rage coincide with comedy and uptown-literati charm ... Reading How to Lose Your Mother, one senses that the mother got the very daughter she wanted, even if she had no idea what to do with her when she arrived.
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Ruthlessly honest and often hilarious ...
The scenes from Jong-Fast’s childhood are described with a waspish humour but are nevertheless terribly sad ... [Jong-Fast] is a strange combination of being incredibly clear-sighted about her mother’s failings and endlessly forgiving of them ... She is a strange combination of being incredibly clear-sighted about her mother’s failings and endlessly forgiving of them.
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